Giving patients bad news: “I see your lips move, but all I hear is blah, blah, blah.”
Wednesday, April 8th, 2009Part of what makes medicine so difficult is the constant time constraints we are under (or perceive we are under.) I have grappled with ways and styles of communicating effectively, and some days are better than others. I found a monograph entitled “The Four Habits Approach to Effective Clinical Communication” by Richard M. Frankel, PhD, et al to be helpful.
Following is an excerpt on delivering bad news. I find giving bad news particularly challenging, as frequently, there is nothing to say or do that makes it any better. Hopefully following the steps below will allow physicians to do it with greater grace.
- Prepare for the visit by having an appropriate time and place (not the hall way of the hospital!)
- Have a plan for what you wish to accomplish.
- Get the patient’s perspective before giving your own.
- Use clear, unambiguous language, and be brief.
- Be silent after you have delivered the news to allow the patient to process the information.
- Limit the goals of the visit once the news has been delivered. (In my experience, once you say the word “cancer”, patients become unable to process further information.)
- Check for patient and family understanding.
- Plan the next steps for short, medium and long term goals. (E.g. “tomorrow, you will see brilliant Dr. Oncologist, and then next week likely start chemotherapy. Long term, you should recover fully.”)
Good luck out there. Let me know if you have ways you deliver bad news to patients that seem to ease the pain. Isn’t that why we are physicians?